Romantic Relationships and Divorce

During the pendency of a divorce, the judge will unlikely allow you to take your children around your boyfriend or girlfriend. Often, children are just getting used to their parents not being together. Therefore, introducing a new adult into the picture can greatly complicate matters. Romantic relationships and divorce can be difficult to navigate especially with children.

Often, however, parties ask if they can have their boyfriends or girlfriends around their children after the divorce. Most Wilson, Smith, and Macon County Judges will allow them to be around your children. An exception would be if their being around the children would somehow be harmful.

Are girlfriends or boyfriends allowed to spend the night when your children are present? Look at your Parenting Plan.

Some plans or Court Orders state you can not have unrelated overnight guests of the opposite sex present when your children are present. If your Parenting Plan or another Court Order states this, the answer is NO. However, you can go back to Court to request this be changed.

If your plan does not prohibit boyfriends or girlfriends, then more than likely, you are allowed to do so. However, no lawyer can tell you this unless they review your divorce documents. If you choose to have overnight guests, violating the Court Order, you may be held in Contempt of Court.

Romantic Relationships and Divorce:  Abide by Your Court Orders

Understandably, after a divorce, you are ready to move on with your life. And if you have been in a bad relationship, you are probably ready to be in a better relationship. However, you need to remember that when it comes to children, they are our Tennessee Judges’ top priority.

In summary, Abide by your Court Orders regarding boyfriends and girlfriends.  If you need them to be changed, petition for a change and request a modification. Don’t violate them first and ask for forgiveness later.  Romantic relationships and divorce are difficult to navigate, especially with children.  If you have questions, contact us at https://www.kane-law.com/contact-us/